Today's irk is on a more personal level. Have you ever been accused of something you didn't do?
To be accused of something you didn't do is quite discerning. When it comes from someone you know and who knows you well, it brings on all kinds of emotion. Anger, sadness, disbelief, doubt, hate, to name a few.
When you are the type of person who lives by a set of good principles, treats others with respect, believes in honesty and has integrity, getting accused of something that isn't favorable can rock your world.
If you deny the accusations and the person accusing refuses to believe you, it hurts. Try as you might, if that person will not accept the truth and chooses to believe the worst of you, you almost feel like you don't want to get close to anyone ever again.
Now let's look at this another way. What gives that person the right to accuse you when there is no proof of any wrong doing? What gives that person the right to feel superior over you and to want to hold your emotions hostage? The answer: Insecurity!
The accuser is so insecure that they would rather accost you mentally to make themselves feel empowered. They are so insecure in themselves, that they prefer to think the worst of you. It gives them pleasure to upset you. They surround themselves with a negative thought, a negative outlook, a negative way of life.
They'll never believe you because if they did, that would mean they would have to admit they were wrong. Admitting error is not allowed. That would be a positive act and make them a better person. There is no room for that in their world.
How to deal with people like the accusers of the world? Don't!!! Remove yourself from their world. Know you are the better person. Focus on the positive in the world. Be happy that you live by a good set of scruples. Say a little prayer for them.
Oh and one more thing...feel great about yourself and SMILE!
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